remember the day.
make it personal.

Give an upcoming birthday a place in your messages. Ask umi to remind you to buy a card, make a call or send your wishes, with time to prepare.

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a birthday nudge, before the rush.

umi

iMessage · Today 9:41

umi: a little nudge to pick up Alex’s birthday card

You: thanks! I’ll get it on my way home

umi: one less thing for the last minute :)

remember more than
the date.

A birthday has a few little steps: choose a card, find a gift, make time to call. Set the reminders you need for this celebration and keep the plans in your conversation.

You: Alex’s birthday is on 15 November 2026.

umi: when would you like a nudge to prepare?

You: 10 November 2026 at 6 pm, to get a card

umi: saved — I’ll remind you to get Alex’s card on 10 November 2026 at 6 pm

choose your reminder.
make it yours.

Complete setup, tell umi the action and schedule, and wait for confirmation. The conversations below are illustrative.

You: Remind me on 10 November 2026 at 6 pm to buy Alex a birthday card.

umi: saved — I’ll remind you to buy Alex a birthday card on 10 November 2026 at 6 pm

leave time for the card.

Choose a specific date before the birthday so you have time to buy or post something.

  • choose the date and local time
  • name the person and the action
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You: Remind me on 15 November 2026 at 10 am to call Alex for their birthday.

umi: saved — I’ll remind you to call Alex on 15 November 2026 at 10 am

remember to make the call.

Set another reminder for the day itself. umi reminds you; you decide what to say and send it yourself.

  • a reminder sent to you
  • no automatic messages to your contacts
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You: Change Alex’s birthday reminder to bring the card to lunch at 12 pm on 15 November 2026.

umi: updated — I’ll remind you to bring Alex’s card to lunch on 15 November 2026 at 12 pm

adjust the plan.

If you will see them in person, change the action or cancel the call reminder.

  • update the reminder in chat
  • cancel plans you no longer need
get started →

more than a text.

A photo of the moment. A thought spoken out loud. Send either in iMessage, and umi replies in text.

get ready before the day.

Share your birthday preparation and talk through what is still left to do.

A blue wrapped birthday present with cotton ribbon beside a blank cream card and pen.

You: Alex’s present is wrapped. Just need to write the card.

umi: what’s a little memory with Alex you could put in the card?

start with whose birthday.

Say who you want to remember and the date, then choose when to be nudged.

You (transcript): Help me set a reminder for an upcoming birthday. Ask me whose birthday it is and the date.

umi: whose birthday is coming up, and what is the date?

Illustrative conversations. Photo created with AI.

what would you like to stick with?

Start with a message. Here are a few things you can ask umi.

prepare a gift

Choose the date you want to start preparing.

You: Help me choose a date to remind me to buy a gift for an upcoming birthday.

remember the call

Include the full birthday date and a time when you can call.

You: Help me set a reminder to call someone on their birthday.

post a card early

Allow for the delivery time you expect.

You: Help me set a reminder to post a birthday card before the day.

a little trust goes a long way.

Personal conversations deserve clear answers. Here’s what to expect from umi.

you only remember at the last minute

Set a preparation reminder as well as a reminder for the day. Tell umi the exact dates you want.

you have several birthdays coming up

Name each person and date clearly, and check the confirmation for each saved reminder. This is a conversation, not a synced birthday calendar.

clear about your data

Your messages and preferences help umi respond. Our privacy page explains what is stored and which services process it.

always honest about AI

umi is an AI companion. A friendly conversation, with no pretending there’s a person behind the messages.

part of your world

umi adds a little company. Your friends, family, community, and professional support still matter.

you set the pace

You choose your check-ins. Ask umi to change or cancel a reminder. Text STOP to stop messages and request cancellation of future subscription renewals.

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a few little questions.

make time
for their day.

Set up umi, choose a subscription, then ask for your first reminder. You choose the timing; umi confirms when it is saved.

set up my reminder →